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Call out to the Emmet Ray

So me and my mom have been staying with her ex, Ginty for a little while now. So far he has been nothing but weird about us (ex: Calling us "his lovely's", buying my mother flowers, trying to get her to go out with him again). We have tried our best to be calm about it and I'm very impressed with how my mom handles these things. She has a very nice boyfriend now who has been nothing but kind to both of us and has helped with things like groceries and even got us a new router, he has also given the both of us some very meaningful gifts (ex: My mom was given her favorite flower/plant after the first month of them dating and all her ex's didn't, I was given a framed scorpion for my oddity collection). Ginty is not a fan of this and has stolen my mom's boyfriends cards (two of them) from his wallet, then he spent it on his ex girlfriend (not my mom) and on alcohol at two different bars, one of these was the bar he works at, The Emmet Ray.

He not only did that but also has refused to admit to it, threw out the card and has tried to kill my mom's plant (the one she was gifted from her boyfriend). This isn't the first time he has done something of this nature (ex: When he was dating my mom he cut the cord to her kettle) and has also refused to do his part with getting rid of the current ant infestation, he has also refused to call a plumber for the pipes and we only just got them fixed after weeks of telling him about it.

My mom put a lock on her door so he would stop looking at her when see slept and also so he would stop stealing stuff from her room, I also locked my own door since I sleep naked due to having a problem with over heating and I was worried he'd come in and mess with my stuff. We are currently packing our stuff and will hopefully never have to deal with this pathetic excuse for an almost 50 year old. The Emmet Ray has responded to my mother telling them about the situation. (link here)

Here is the response that she was given

"We have been aware of this situation, and you are correct, we cannot give financial information out. At this point we will make sure all wrong doing will be rectified, but when asked for the card holders name we were met with hostility. We still plan to look into this further once the banks open. We feel your comment is unwarranted and hurtful to the business and musicians that rely on it. We have been kind to you.

I think this review shows to your character not our reputation.

Sincerely

Management"

This is not an appropriate reply to the situation that me and my mother have been put in. We only moved in with Ginty because we had nowhere else to go after my mom's ex fiancé put her in debt. She had no romantic or sexual intentions when it came to Ginty, but he still tried to push further. This response is just plain ignorant and disrespectful to what my mother has been put threw this past year.

Thank you for reading.

do you guys ever get bored of the things you love? (vent) :2024/08/04

I don't have many friends I can talk 2 irl rn and I might be moving again.

I do the same things every day and the only thing that ever changes in my life is my style. My days repeat themselves and my interests have been the same for years, only changing when I find something new to add to my obsessions. I just wish I had something new a fun happen too me. My mom is doing well and is moving on from last year and her last relationship but I still feel stuck. I know that I'm still younge and I will have my time later in life but still... my life feels like a tape that's being rewinded and played over and over again.

Does anyone have an advice

One hell of a ride :2024/05/14

Soooo... my bad for not updating in awhile? Idk what happened (I forgot my computer at a friends house and I HATE using my phone for this kind of stuff.) BUT I AM BACK!!

I've definitely been doing better so that's good.. wish I could say the same for my friend, Fred. (TW: suicide) I just had to talk one of my online friends out of killing himself almost immediately after I woke up-

Not the best wake up call... somehow not the worst? Idk, I started crying because of it (I've lost way too many friends for my age) and I keep worrying about them. They said they started doing better tho so that's good!!

In other, less traumatizing news!! I saw my brother again! He's doing good so YIPPEE!!!!

I also talked to one of my gr8 supply teachers so that was cool!! (Miss D is a genderfluid icon in my old friend group.) so it was nice to talk to them again.

But yeah, I've met up with some friends and I'm feeling better about being here... ALSO!! If you see a 5'3 clown child with wayyy too many bracelets on and black platforms in Toronto, that's probably me! So stop by and say hi if you're up to the challenge ig? (DON'T FORGOT STRANGER DANGER THO!!) Buh bye for now!!

Home sweet hell (I'm back bitches) :2024/04/05

We finally got back to Toronto but I'm soooo fucking stressed... I also might have sorta accidentally stolen a computer from my school so yk....

I SWARE I DIDN'T MEAN TO PLEASE ;-;

Anyways, I'm excited to see all my friends again though I'll miss the others too. I also miss my now ex-boyfriend (we only broke up 'cause I was moving and we both hate long distance relationships) so that sucks. But other than that I've been doing ok. I'm really tired as of writing this (it's 11:51 PM) so I'm just gonna cut it here.

Update on my life! (good news) :2024/03/29

I'm moving back to Toronto!!

I do have to leave my bf behind though and I'm not 100% how to tell him, I am going to tell him today. I am however excited to see my friends again, not to mention that my brother is also in Toronto!

I am still very nervous to go but I hope this is gonna work out well. My mom is also doing better so thats good, I just happy to see her happy again. If I ever see the man who did all of this I will hit him in the back of the head with a brick. /hj

Rant about my current life (vent):2024/03/27

My mother got into another bad relationship and i got caught in the cross fire (nothing to bad or anything physical but still), we are leaving the house to get a new place but everything is making me stressed and irrateable.

I knew he wasn't a good person but my mom was happy with him so I did my best to support her, but when I did that everything got worse. I hated him so much and I hate him even more now. He's been manipulating my mom for money the whole time because he's to lazy to go and be an adult and it's so fucking imature and annoying. All he does is smoke and complain about whatever's bothering him.

I'm so glad my mom finally realized this but I feel so bad, he messed her up so bad. She's attached to his past self and now has to come to terms with the fact that he isn't the same person anymore. We are hopefully gonna get a decent place (which should be some what easy now that He is out of the picture). But I'm still so mad at him.

I know that these things happen sometimes but I don't think that means that I can't get mad about it. I have things that I can be happy about like my friends and my mom but sometimes I just wanna scream at the world for everything.

silly lil rant (not a vent):2024/03/04

i wanna be a silly lil creature in the woods with hundreds of eyes and weird moth-like features (Wings, extra arms, antenna, fuzz, proboscis looking thingy). i want to look like im rotting and crawling with bug and smaller creatures, i want my skull to be exposed on one side on my face so the bugs can crawl through my head. I want fungi and moss to be growing all over my skin.

I want to live in the woods in some old abandoned building and help lost hikers and lead them out of the woods. I want them to tell stories of me to teach kids weird and dark lessons only for them to discover that im actually just some "thing" that watches ppl in the woods.

I want them to leave me offerings of food and drawings. i'll make a nest in the building and decorate it with the offerings. I'll leave animal bone all over the place for the gay ppl who become interested in my existence (Cause for some reason tons of gay and trans ppl love cryptids, me included) so they can collect them.

I want to be a cryptid.

Hell pit